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On 19 August 2026, our lives changed forever when we unexpectedly lost our beloved Raylene P. Turck, wife, Mommy, daughter, sister, family member and friend.
Born on 17 November 1963, Raylene lived a life filled with love, family, laughter and an enormous amount of personality. Anyone who knew her knew that she had an incredibly big heart. She loved deeply and wholeheartedly, sometimes overwhelmingly so, but that was simply Mommy. When she cared about you, you knew it.
She worried about the people she loved, protected them, checked on them, gave advice whether it was requested or not, and always wanted to know what was happening in everyone's lives. Her family was incredibly important to her.
Raylene shared 43 years of marriage with her husband, Hugo. Together they built a life and family filled with experiences, challenges, laughter and countless memories. Losing his wife and life partner after so many years together leaves a tremendous emptiness.
To her sons, she was Mommy. She was a constant presence in their lives — loving, protective, involved and unmistakably herself. There will never be another Mommy quite like her.
She was also a beloved daughter and sister, and over the years became family to many people who were not connected to her by blood. That was part of Raylene's gift: her heart had room for people.
There are so many ordinary things that suddenly feel extraordinary now.
And we will especially miss those big, warm hugs that only Mommy could give.
Although our hearts are broken, we do not want Raylene's story to be defined by the day we lost her.
We want to remember the 62 years of life that came before it — the people she loved, the people who loved her, the laughter she shared, the memories she created and the many lives she touched along the way.
That is why we have chosen to say goodbye with A Colourful Celebration of Life — something filled with flowers, colour, photographs, stories and laughter, because that feels much more like Raylene than a room filled only with sadness.
We find comfort in our faith and in believing that Mommy is now at peace in Heaven and that this goodbye is not forever.
To everyone whose life Raylene touched, we invite you to help us preserve her story. Please share a favourite photograph, a beautiful memory, a funny story or simply something about Raylene that still makes you smile.
Those memories are precious to us now and will help keep her story alive for generations to come.
Raylene's big heart, beautiful laugh, warm hugs and the love she gave so freely will forever remain part of us.
Rest peacefully, Mommy.
17 November 1963 – 19 August 2026
Forever loved. Forever remembered. Until we meet again. ❤️🌈🕊️
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🌈 Come as you are — wear something colourful.Raylene brought colour, personality and laughter into our lives. In her memory, we invite you to wear something colourful rather than feeling that traditional black is necessary.📸 Please share your memories.We would love photographs, funny stories and special memories of Raylene. These will help our family preserve the many different parts of her life and the impact she had on others.❤️ Memorial ContributionsContributions received through Raylene's memorial campaign will assist with her cremation, Celebration of Life, flowers, food and related arrangements. Any remaining funds will be donated to Fontana Church in Raylene's honour.
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Messages & Condolences
Heartfelt words from those who knew and loved Raylene Turck.
Anyone wanting to know Raylene only needs to see her family. The closeness they shared is on every face. She cared for them taught them loved them and ended up with the most thoughtful, loving, devoted and caring children on this planet. We will all miss this tender person and she will remain in the hearts of everyone and never be forgotten.
28 August 2026Vir my liewe Raylene ❤️
Ek kon dit eenvoudig nie glo toe ek hoor dat jy oorlede is nie… Dit voel nog so onwerklik dat jy nie meer hier is nie.
Raylene, jy het een van die mees aansteeklike laggies gehad. Jou lag kon ’n hele vertrek vul en sommer almal om jou laat glimlag. Jy was ’n ware mense-mens — iemand wat mense na jou toe aangetrek het sonder om eers te probeer. ✨
Jy het nie kleur gesien nie… jy het mense gesien. Mense wat, soos jy geglo het, na die beeld van God geskape is. ❤️ Jy het mense aanvaar vir wie hulle is en met jou warmte, liefde en mooi hart ’n merk op soveel lewens gelaat.
En vir my was jy soveel meer as net ’n maatjie… jy was ook my seuns se mammie. Jy het hulle met liefde aanvaar, vir hulle omgegee en deel geword van ons familie. Daardie plek wat jy in hulle harte gehad het, sal niemand ooit kan wegneem nie. ❤️
My maatjie, ek gaan jou lag, jou mooi gees en die mens wat jy was, onthou. Ons gaan jou verskriklik mis.
Vandag huil ons omdat ons jou verloor het, maar ons glimlag ook deur die trane omdat ons die voorreg gehad het om jou te ken en lief te hê.
Die hemel het een van sy mooiste Engele ryker geword. 👼🏻🤍
Rus sag, my liewe Raylene.
Tot ons mekaar eendag weer sien… 🕊️❤️
Jy sal nooit vergeet word nie.
Vir my liewe Raylene ❤️
Ek kon dit eenvoudig nie glo toe ek hoor dat jy oorlede is nie… Dit voel nog so onwerklik dat jy nie meer hier is nie.
Raylene, jy het een van die mees aansteeklike laggies gehad. Jou lag kon ’n hele vertrek vul en sommer almal om jou laat glimlag. Jy was ’n ware mense-mens — iemand wat mense na jou toe aangetrek het sonder om eers te probeer. ✨
Jy het nie kleur gesien nie… jy het mense gesien. Mense wat, soos jy geglo het, na die beeld van God geskape is. ❤️ Jy het mense aanvaar vir wie hulle is en met jou warmte, liefde en mooi hart ’n merk op soveel lewens gelaat.
En vir my was jy soveel meer as net ’n maatjie… jy was ook my seuns se mammie. Jy het hulle met liefde aanvaar, vir hulle omgegee en deel geword van ons familie. Daardie plek wat jy in hulle harte gehad het, sal niemand ooit kan wegneem nie. ❤️
My maatjie, ek gaan jou lag, jou mooi gees en die mens wat jy was, onthou. Ons gaan jou verskriklik mis.
Vandag huil ons omdat ons jou verloor het, maar ons glimlag ook deur die trane omdat ons die voorreg gehad het om jou te ken en lief te hê.
Die hemel het een van sy mooiste Engele ryker geword. 👼🏻🤍
Rus sag, my liewe Raylene.
Tot ons mekaar eendag weer sien… 🕊️❤️
Jy sal nooit vergeet word nie.
While I didn't have a chance to meet her in person I feel like I knew her as I heard so many stories from Evan, Shannon and Stuart. I wish I could have heard her laugh as from what I've gathered it was hard to miss and brought smiles to others. My condolences go out to the entire family.
27 August 2026Although I never had the opportunity to meet Raylene, I have had the privilege of meeting her sons. Knowing them has given me a glimpse into the woman she was and, in many ways, has brought me closer to knowing her.
The love, kindness, strength, and care that Raylene gave throughout her life will continue to shine through her sons. In the way they carry themselves, love others, and move through the world, her spirit lives on.
While I wish I could have known Raylene personally, I feel fortunate to know the pieces of her that live on in her children. Through them, her memory will remain alive, her love will continue to touch others, and her spirit will never be forgotten.
With heartfelt sympathy and remembrance.
Kimberly
I met Raylene when Evan and Shannon got married. She welcomed Shannon’s father and I with open arms. What a loving, warm person with a million dollar smile. She could light up a dark sky.
Over the years she made me several adorable dolls that I cherish. She found out I collected dolls and was sweet enough to create them for me.
Raylene has left quite a legacy. Many broken hearts are left, but many smiles when they think of her. I am honored to be one of those people.
I know where she is, and she is looking down on each and everyone she has touched.
Sylvia Dotson